"Really, the fundamental, ultimate mystery - the only thing you need to know to understand the deepest metaphysical secrets - is this: that for every outside there is an inside and for every inside there is an outside, and although they are different, they go together."

-Alan Watts

this more human love-- which will fulfill itself with infinite consideration and gentleness, and kindness and clarity in binding and releasing-- will resemble what we are now preparing painfully and with great struggle: the love that consists in this: the two solitudes protect and border and greet each other.

RMR